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Honoring
Parents The
Ten Commandments were given to the Israelites at Mount Sinai. Also called the
“Decalogue” (deka meaning “ten” and logos meaning “words”), the Ten
Commandments were spoken to the people by God. He was the author (Matthew 15:4).
The
Ten Commandments were a series of absolute statements (“You shall” and
“You shall not”). They can be divided into two parts— the first four are
vertical, dealing with man’s duties to God, and the last six are horizontal,
dealing with man’s duties to one another. The Ten Commandments were eventually
preserved on two stone tablets and stored in the Ark of the Covenant,
symbolizing the close relationship of God and His Word. The
fifth Commandment protected the home. God said, “Honor your father and your
mother, that your days may be long in the land that the Lord your God is giving
you” (Exodus 20:12). “Honor” comes from the Hebrew word kabad, and carries
the idea of esteeming or glorifying. It is sometimes used with God as its object
(1 Samuel 2:30). “Honor”
includes both obedience to and respect for parents: “Whoever
strikes his father or his mother shall be put to death” (Exodus 21:15). “Whoever
curses his father or his mother shall be put to death” (Exodus 21:17). There
are two things that “honor” does not do: (1) Honor does not set aside
God’s law. Herodias’ daughter may have felt like she was honoring her mother
by asking for the head of John the Baptist (Mark 6:24), but she was actually
dishonoring God by participating in wicked behavior. (2) Honor does not negate a
change in priority at marriage. A man is to “leave” his father and mother
when he takes a wife (Genesis 2:24). “Leave” comes from the Hebrew word azab,
and carries the idea of unloosing or forsaking. To “leave” in that text
involves more than just moving out of the house. A child’s loyalty shifts from
parent to partner when they marry. Though
we are not under the Old Law today, this commandment is reaffirmed in the New
Testament. It applies to Christians. Paul wrote, “Children, obey your parents
in the Lord, for this is right. ‘Honor your father and mother’ (this is the
first commandment with a promise), ‘that it may go well with you and that
you may live long in the land’” (Ephesians 6:1-3). Let us honor our God by
honoring our parents! |